My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. - John 15:12

I saw this on David Crowder's Twitter and I got revelation. So when we deal with hard situations. Love each other AS Jesus loves us. Love isn't a permission to treat each other like poo. We are commanded by Jesus to love. God tells us 1 Corinthians 13. Even to love one another towards bestiality people, even towards rapists, even towards incestial people, even towards murders. Now I don't condone these sins at all.  Justice has to happen for any sin but no sin is beyond forgiveness. Forgiveness is for you not for them. Perfect love seeking God for wisdom shows you the best decisions for any situation. Put your hope in God and he will show the way of love.